WoW Petopia Community

A fun place to chat about hunter pets in the World of Warcraft.
Visit the Petopia homepage Petopia Homepage
It is currently Fri Dec 14, 2018 9:41 am

All times are UTC - 5 hours [ DST ]


Forum Rules: Treat others with respect. Report, don't respond. Read the complete rules.




Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 8 posts ] 
Author Message
Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 6:43 pm 
Offline
Grand Master Hunter
Grand Master Hunter
User avatar

Joined: Tue May 17, 2011 6:46 pm
Posts: 2925
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Realm: Zul'jin(US)
Gender: Female
Just before thanksgiving an uncle like figure killed himself. After the funeral etc I'm still shocked hes gone. (he and my dad where friends but where close like bothers so he was more then a uncle to me then anything.)

I still ask myself why he did it or why didn't he tell us he was suffering. Not even his wife knew. How do you just deal with that? Anyways, I post this because we always spent Christmas together so it will be weird not doing that this year or him not being here.


Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 7:18 pm 
Offline
 Community Resource
 Community Resource
User avatar

Joined: Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:19 am
Posts: 13662
Location: Copenhagen- Denmark
Realm: Not playing WoW anymore :)
Gender: Female
I am truly sorry for your loss. I know how it is to loose someone close to you.

This helped me after my kidbrother died
https://www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=E&pub=we&srcid=share


As you probably know I am a Jehovas Witnesse and this link will maybe help you. I find the bibles answers and promises to be very comforting so I hope you will too.

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/q ... and-death/

Feel free to pm me if you have questions about what your reading and also if you want a shoulder to cry on. I am really sorry for your loss. :hug:

_________________

Image


HUGE thanks to Makoes, Syleye, FeralClaw, Pingupuff, Karin,Bowno, Varethyn, Ashaine, Kishay, Aki (Täräin13), my friend Marie and some lovely ppl on Fligth Rising for my lovely sig


Flight Rising Lair



Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 10:10 pm 
Offline
Illustrious Master Hunter
Illustrious Master Hunter
User avatar

Joined: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:43 pm
Posts: 10733
Location: In Queue.
Realm: Wyrmrest Accord, Moon Guard
Gender: Doubtful
Oh god, I'm so sorry, Qinni. I don't know how you deal with it beyond remembering and honoring him as best you can, and just always pushing for people to be more aware and accepting of mental illness. It's horrible that it's still so stigmatized that people are afraid to mention it, even to their loved ones.

I hope you and your family can recover from this together. <3 My mom went through it with her brother, but he was lucky enough to live.

_________________

Tumblr ~ Flight Rising
Signature by Crookfish, thank you so much!


Image



Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 10:33 pm 
Offline
Grand Master Hunter
Grand Master Hunter
User avatar

Joined: Tue May 17, 2011 6:46 pm
Posts: 2925
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Realm: Zul'jin(US)
Gender: Female
Thanks for the kind words.

What kinda makes me mad is since he was catholic, he was denied burial in the family site plus didn’t get the same ceremonie like someone else would. It wasn’t his fault so why damn him in the afterlife too? I’m Christian btw but at least we say god forgives even suicide...


Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 6:38 am 
Offline
 Community Resource
 Community Resource
User avatar

Joined: Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:35 pm
Posts: 1104
Location: Australia
Realm: Jubei'Thos (US/Oceania)
:hug:


Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 1:27 pm 
Offline
Grand Master Hunter
Grand Master Hunter
User avatar

Joined: Thu Jan 14, 2010 6:20 pm
Posts: 2034
Location: PA
Realm: Vek'nilash
I'm so sorry to hear that :hug:

I was offered therapy after my brother attempted suicide years ago. I was one of the ones who found him and we were able to save him, but at the time I didn't want to talk about it. I wish I had taken the opportunity I think you may want to talk to a therapist if you're able. I go to one now for pain management with fibro and he's been a big help.

_________________

Flight Rising Lair
http://flightrising.com/main.php?p=lair&id=26145



Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 1:46 pm 
Offline
The Insane
The Insane
User avatar

Joined: Tue Jul 27, 2010 1:54 am
Posts: 11329
Gender: Male
I'm so sorry Qinni. It must be a huge shock to you and your family :( How's your dad taking it?

*hugs*

_________________
Shaman avatar by Spiritbinder.


Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Unread postPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 4:57 pm 
Offline
Grand Master Hunter
Grand Master Hunter
User avatar

Joined: Tue May 17, 2011 6:46 pm
Posts: 2925
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Realm: Zul'jin(US)
Gender: Female
Wain wrote:
I'm so sorry Qinni. It must be a huge shock to you and your family :( How's your dad taking it?

*hugs*

I guess he’s okay but I know he’s trying to hide how he feels .


Top
 Profile  
Reply with quote  
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 8 posts ] 

All times are UTC - 5 hours [ DST ]


Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 2 guests


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group