Kalliope wrote:Being on a PvE server gives an illusion of security. You don't REALLY get to choose when/where/how you interact with other players. They don't have to kill you directly to grief you, and they don't even have to leave themselves open to retaliation. You can't do anything to prevent what happens; you can only watch.
Griefing is so much worse on PVP servers, it's not even in the same ballpark - and it stands to reason; yes, sure, on PVE someone can kill your tame and you can't retaliate, but they have to be either really lucky to be there when it spawns, or really hateful to devote that much time to standing there with you for hours on the chance the rare might spawn.
I constantly hear from people on PVP servers complaining about how they were just minding their own business, doing quests or etc, and some kid comes up and ganks them, /lol, /spit, /slap, /corpsecamp etc, yet on the other end of things in PVE-land, yes once in a while I'll hear someone say "damn I wish I could have attacked him" but again - super rare. Most times ppl get pissed at each other on PVE, they both flag, or at least duel it out.
In my experience, the a-holes tend to have pretty short attention spans; unless you've actively done something to piss them they usually lose interest and leave - usually in under a minute, never more than 5 minutes or so and that was a one-off.
Not to say there aren't people out there who actually would commit to spending 5-6 hours sitting next to a complete stranger just to F up his tame, just that most jerks just get bored and leave, which is why soooo much more griefing happens on PVP servers, because quite simply if they want to mess with you, they can - directly, and (pretty much) anywhere and at any time without waiting around for a rare spawn to kill.