That's the thing... WoW usually is a common interest for us. He's working on stuff for his warrior and I always listen to stuff he talks about. That whole comment just came out of NOWHERE and I don't know what his problem is. I don't see what the big deal is. When we don't play during the school year I still keep up to date with what's going on in-game and he calls me a nerd or whatever [not in a cute way, really] when I read stuff, talk about it, etc and asks why I even bother. Why can't I just like to know what's going on????Vulpixen wrote:Miraga wrote:My boyfriend made me feel bad. I was telling him about maybe transferring my hunter and talking about being fizzled out from WoW. Then I came across the new hairstyles in the patch and was excited about it. I gave him the link and he said "Why do you read stupid shit about [WoW] if you aren't even going to play?" and it just... I don't know. I never said I was going to stop playing, I just haven't been feeling like playing lately...
Maybe I'm being too sensitive but now I'm pretty upset. I don't know what his attitude has been lately but it really makes me upset.
Definately talk to him, not cool on his part. EVEN if you werent going to play WoW its still something that excites you and he should be interested in that.. For instance - My boyfriend listened to me ramble on and on about GW2 and Tera when I found out about them.(I want to play both) And his reply was a laugh and a "Your cute when your nerdy. I like it." - Likewise when he got super excited about the new Xmen movie(which we both plan to go see - LOOKS SO EPIC) I listened to him. Its important to listen to your partner and share in their interests otherwise you just come off as a(to be quite frank here and mean no offense to you Mir) an asshole.. So yes, talk to him because him making you feel bad is NOT cool no matter the circumstance.(Ps. Your not too sensitive your a human-being and sometimes things just strike a nerve and upset us. What really upsets one person may not upset another.)
I want to talk to him but right now I can't. I'm feeling pretty raw emotionally so I'm just watching TV and calming down or whatever. It really doesn't help that we live 17 hours apart during the summer, so we can't sit down and talk about stuff. I can pretty much sum up what will happen though [because this is what ALWAYS happens...]: He will apologize and never want to talk about it again. Just... ugh... *crawls under the covers*