Re: Rant Thread
Posted: Fri Nov 29, 2019 8:45 am
My uncle died last night. We knew it would be soon, but not this soon.
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I know what a good person you are and I'm sorry for the shitty person who made you feel that way. That person is damaged and toxic, and while it would be stupid to pretend they shouldn't get to you I find it's sometimes helpful to focus on the fact you're dealing with someone like that and not someone whose opinion reflects reality.SpiritBinder wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 7:00 am Honestly, people who I already don’t particularly like, but you give the best version of myself. Why, because I want to be a more compassionate person. They decide to lead in with sweet subtle conversation, then completely deconstruct all the positive things you said, suggesting it was all not that good. Then they say a really awful thing about you to you face. Without a skip, like it’s taking about the weather. I’m left a spinning and flustered,
trying to over explain that that’s not correct, etc, etc. all the while, they just watch and smirk.
Why?!? Why be so awful, why say awful lies for no other reason but to make someone feel small.
I really really fucking hate people sometimes. I wish their words would just wash off me, but I made myself vulnerable and open to someone I knew was mean. I tried to be a good person, and they just emotionally fucked me over knowing full well...
Just... gross.
That's because truly toxic people don't get how toxic they are. And more often than not see themselves as some sort of victim - even while saying passive aggressively mean things to your face. And as much as we wish we could say "whatever dude" words hurtSpiritBinder wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 7:00 am Honestly, people who I already don’t particularly like, but you give the best version of myself. Why, because I want to be a more compassionate person. They decide to lead in with sweet subtle conversation, then completely deconstruct all the positive things you said, suggesting it was all not that good. Then they say a really awful thing about you to you face. Without a skip, like it’s taking about the weather. I’m left a spinning and flustered,
trying to over explain that that’s not correct, etc, etc. all the while, they just watch and smirk.
Why?!? Why be so awful, why say awful lies for no other reason but to make someone feel small.
I really really fucking hate people sometimes. I wish their words would just wash off me, but I made myself vulnerable and open to someone I knew was mean. I tried to be a good person, and they just emotionally fucked me over knowing full well...
Just... gross.
Namárië wrote: ↑Sat Nov 30, 2019 9:49 pm Enough to rant about lately. .mother in law dying. My hubbys heart condition, my own health. But for now Im going to rant about monk tanks! I have a druid healer (120) , a Holy priest (75) and a Holy paladin (51), and monk tanks are the worst ive ever seen! ! They are soooo hard to keep alive, they can't hold agro and those ive meet always tries to pull sooo many at once though they don't got the armor or health for it! #banmonktanks !
Not harsh. I know exactly what it's like to go through that with a loved one, when their quality of life has gone but their body keeps going...