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Kids at that age are still trying to find themselves, even if they don't realize it. Many are insecure about something about themselves, so they have to attack others (I've heard counselors say that things someone says about you are actually a reflection of how they feel about themselves). Maybe they are trying to impress their friends. Or, maybe their mothers were like mine and told them to play "hard to get", and that all men are pigs. Sadly, that's how I was raised and while I was younger, I tended to believe it. Eventually, I learned to think for myself and develop my own opinions.

I doubt you're that repulsive (I can't think of anyone I know that could be considered as such). The girls at your age are, for the most part, still in that mindset of going with the crowd. When you get older, it'll improve. There will still be jerks out there, for sure, but not nearly as many.

Sickhuntz56 wrote:I don't really know why I'm making this post. I guess just to vent. But teenage girls are so rude and judgemental. I'm 16, so it's hard enough...but seriously? Most girls just ignore me straight up, for no reason. The ones who do reply, however, are just plain rude, or call me weird, or ugly. They say things like "Umm....you're ugly, LOL. bye" or "i dont know you, bye". I mean correct me if im wrong, but you have to TALK to someone in order to know them, right? I'm tired of being judged by looks. I think everyone is made beautiful. AND I'm tired of girls going ON and ON about how all guys are the same, want sex, etc....HELLO? NOT TRUE. i think sex is for MARRIED COUPLES. Don't overlook me just because of my looks. Everyone is beautiful. EVERYONE. I don't know why i did this....just had to say all of that.

I'll tell you the one thing I figured out after my high school days of pretty much hearing the same things you were. High school is not the time to worry about girls, or anything other then being friends with people. YOu have that whole part of your life to look ahead too, I know people who married straight out of high school and divorced soon after as both people were still finding their way in life and finding themselves.

I know it's hard not to do this but be happy to be friends and focus your attention on your school work and other things.

A lot of girls at that age like to think they're all "hot" and "mature" and that their shit don't stink, usually isn't the case though, most of them are harsh, narrow-minded and extremely unpleasant. Some of 'em grow out of it, and from what i've seen quite a few of them never do. x3

Dunno if you're trying to date people or just make friends, but if it makes you feel any better I never bothered even trying to date until I was 18. I thought it was a waste of time at that age, and in retrospect I totally agree with my former 16 year old self. If someone was rude enough to admit they were that shallow.. to my face... I think i'd just burst out laughing. Trust me, they're doing you a favor! =P

It's the same with boys of that age too. Even the ones who say they "care about whats inside not whats outside" >.> Trust me people like that can be just as bad......

I've had expreiance with that :/ Allso I can edit that post

not saying your like that btw :3