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Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:

Kalliope wrote:*rubs temples*

I hate - HATE - being in a position where I have to be the reasonable authority figure and not retaliate while someone hurls insults at me. Even though if the insults had been directed at someone else, I would have acted appropriately in their defense.

Sigh.

It's a thankless job indeed.

Happily, I got an apology not long afterwards, so at least my actions ended up being justified. An apology after I had acted would have seemed terribly insincere.

Still....this is likely to happen again and I *will* have to do something and then there will undoubtedly be retaliation.....sigh.

Alas, it's a job that needs to be done. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

It's good you got an apology though. :3

Junrei wrote:Alas, it's a job that needs to be done. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

It's good you got an apology though. :3

I just hope it's the sign of the reasonable person buried within and not just lip service. *sigh* The optimist in me wants to believe, but....

Not so much a rant, but...

That awkward moment when you're writing a nonfiction piece for class that focuses on how one time you had lots and lots of causal lesbian sex even tho you aren't into ladies and that same girl messages you on tumblr.

Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:Alas, it's a job that needs to be done. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

It's good you got an apology though. :3

I just hope it's the sign of the reasonable person buried within and not just lip service. *sigh* The optimist in me wants to believe, but....

Are they a repeat offender or is this just the first time?

Junrei wrote:

Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:Alas, it's a job that needs to be done. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

It's good you got an apology though. :3

I just hope it's the sign of the reasonable person buried within and not just lip service. *sigh* The optimist in me wants to believe, but....

Are they a repeat offender or is this just the first time?

Repeat offender. >_< All that's changed over the years is the specific nature of the sharpness of the tongue. Still young yet, still rebellious....but still.

Ah. One of those kinds. Over or under 18 yrs(if you know)? If under 18, do your best to be patient with them. It's hard but it's the best you can do for now.

Junrei wrote:Ah. One of those kinds. Over or under 18 yrs(if you know)? If under 18, do your best to be patient with them. It's hard but it's the best you can do for now.

21ish, I think. If I hadn't been patient, then she would have already gotten herself into BOILING hot water. I'm at the end of my rope trying to reason with her because I do have faith in her getting it, but she fights me at every turn and claims I hate her (which I don't).

The personal insults were over the line, especially with me being in the position I am. I could have ended it right there and told her so. But I didn't. Not because I am weak, but because I have this ridiculous belief that this is a better way of getting through to her. Punishing her for mouthing off would only make her mouth off more in the long run.

So yeah. Patience is not the problem. Having too much patience might be. Rest assured, if she insults ANYONE again, she's getting her ass nailed to the wall. It's not my job to take a verbal beating so she doesn't get punished for stupidity. And besides, that'd be her third strike, since I was not the first. Her choosing to insult me saved me the trouble of potentially revealing the first victim.

Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:Ah. One of those kinds. Over or under 18 yrs(if you know)? If under 18, do your best to be patient with them. It's hard but it's the best you can do for now.

21ish, I think. If I hadn't been patient, then she would have already gotten herself into BOILING hot water. I'm at the end of my rope trying to reason with her because I do have faith in her getting it, but she fights me at every turn and claims I hate her (which I don't).

The personal insults were over the line, especially with me being in the position I am. I could have ended it right there and told her so. But I didn't. Not because I am weak, but because I have this ridiculous belief that this is a better way of getting through to her. Punishing her for mouthing off would only make her mouth off more in the long run.

So yeah. Patience is not the problem. Having too much patience might be. Rest assured, if she insults ANYONE again, she's getting her ass nailed to the wall. It's not my job to take a verbal beating so she doesn't get punished for stupidity. And besides, that'd be her third strike, since I was not the first. Her choosing to insult me saved me the trouble of potentially revealing the first victim.

*cough* Sounds very familiar, dontcha think? XD

True and true but keep it as a 'second strike' incase she gets out of line. She doesn't need to know it. But keep it in 'documentation'.

Exactly. Just wait....she'll go one of two ways: Learn from her mistakes or hang herself(figuratively!). If she chooses the latter, then all you'll have to do is dispose of her. Some people just...don't learn....I've had to cut ties with some people cause they continued to hurt me and everyone I loved.

If she's around 21ish she should learn from this and not do it again I say should as we all know people don't like acting their age

I know it's nearly winter time but rain why you come now? I need to go out and I have no car

Junrei wrote:Exactly. Just wait....she'll go one of two ways: Learn from her mistakes or hang herself(figuratively!). If she chooses the latter, then all you'll have to do is dispose of her. Some people just...don't learn....I've had to cut ties with some people cause they continued to hurt me and everyone I loved.

Yeahhhhh, she's been like this for a VERY long time. I keep giving her the benefit of the doubt, but she keeps proving she's the same as ever. *sigh*

Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:Exactly. Just wait....she'll go one of two ways: Learn from her mistakes or hang herself(figuratively!). If she chooses the latter, then all you'll have to do is dispose of her. Some people just...don't learn....I've had to cut ties with some people cause they continued to hurt me and everyone I loved.

Yeahhhhh, she's been like this for a VERY long time. I keep giving her the benefit of the doubt, but she keeps proving she's the same as ever. *sigh*

I'll for a minute assume this is a workplace situation and you have my sympathy! I have this kind of stuff go on ALL the time. Ppl just generally crossing line with rudeness and nothing ever changes.

Example: Making casual chat with a colleage in the area where the lifts are...she turns her back on me to ignore me!! Like towards the wall! The hell?? We're about to get in a lift together and go the SAME floor and you think thats a good idea? Btw she did this infront of two others...so i ignored her and talked to the other 2 ppl. But still rude much?

Her e-mails to a male colleage are even worse...bold red type "how many times have I told you to do...." cc'ed to managers and myself...on what planet is that appropiate behaviour? Her team leader thinks she's just missunderstood (yeah right) and when others catch her out on it we're all mean monsters....ffs....

cowmuflage wrote:If she's around 21ish she should learn from this and not do it again I say should as we all know people don't like acting their age

Truer words never spoken....yeah. x_x

She keeps instigating trouble; hopefully someone else will handle her so I don't have to take the brunt of it again. It's just so exhausting to try and be nice when it would be SO MUCH EASIER to just be done with it.

Kalliope wrote:

cowmuflage wrote:If she's around 21ish she should learn from this and not do it again I say should as we all know people don't like acting their age

Truer words never spoken....yeah. x_x

She keeps instigating trouble; hopefully someone else will handle her so I don't have to take the brunt of it again. It's just so exhausting to try and be nice when it would be SO MUCH EASIER to just be done with it.

I'm thinking because your in a position of power she feels you can't just turn around and tell her where to go....like most ppl prob do. Sounds like she's on some kind of weird power trip.

I hate being fake nice to ppl who treat me like crap....why should you be nice when they can't be? Grrrr

Castilé wrote:

Kalliope wrote:

cowmuflage wrote:If she's around 21ish she should learn from this and not do it again I say should as we all know people don't like acting their age

Truer words never spoken....yeah. x_x

She keeps instigating trouble; hopefully someone else will handle her so I don't have to take the brunt of it again. It's just so exhausting to try and be nice when it would be SO MUCH EASIER to just be done with it.

I'm thinking because your in a position of power she feels you can't just turn around and tell her where to go....like most ppl prob do. Sounds like she's on some kind of weird power trip.

Yep, that's the weird thing! I actually hold all the cards, but she is the one on the power trip, since I'm not acting on it.

But she's out of second chances, so that won't last.

starkittens wrote:

Shalyth wrote:This private RP I'm doing better not shove itself infront of my dearly coveted public one or I'm gonna flip tables. Sure the content is simple and easy cause it's not at all supposed to be formal but I can only RP to that theme so often. No RP will replace the one I pieced together from scratch for the first time ever. I just hope it doesn't die down to the point where it only gets a post or two a day. I know I'm in a crappy mood which is why I feel like this is what it is but meeeehhhhh I can't help it. Least it makes me feel better ranting about it. Maybe I'll feel better in a couple hours. Hopefully.

Edit: Alright, yeah, I think its just nerves now that I have a bit more of a clear head to think

Most public RP's that I've seen end up at that point at some time... I pray that it will last a little while before that happens though.

Oh nono durrr private as in through PM's cause it's mature content

I don't like, ever browse the actual public RP's so I kinda call the ones I got going in the Private Stage public cause everyone can read them, they just can't post in em ^^;;

But nah it was completely my nerves being a bit fried, all my RP's are on track now XD

Atm (well, this night thusfar) though, and still on topic of the private RP actually, my muse is dyyyying-ish. Maybe i'll get it back in the morning XD I can only post to the content so long before I get a little burnt out cause it's rather mood based and well, the partner im doing it with could frankly do it all night and day long so I feel bad if I leave it sitting in my inbox all day.... I need fanfics. I should find out Soch's tumblr. That'll help (probably ruin my mind though)

Kalliope wrote:

Junrei wrote:Exactly. Just wait....she'll go one of two ways: Learn from her mistakes or hang herself(figuratively!). If she chooses the latter, then all you'll have to do is dispose of her. Some people just...don't learn....I've had to cut ties with some people cause they continued to hurt me and everyone I loved.

Yeahhhhh, she's been like this for a VERY long time. I keep giving her the benefit of the doubt, but she keeps proving she's the same as ever. *sigh*

My opinion on this....she's used up her chances. Enough is enough. The next time she screws up, pull the lever/kick the chair out from under her and let her have it. You've got more than enough ammunition to use on her after all you've been through with her.

Rant: Holy shit, people are NEVER happy in WoW.

Not enough lesser charms? People whine and bitch!

Now we have plenty of lesser charms? People STILL whine and bitch!

Seriously, I question if people who complain about every damn thing in the game are ever happy with their lives....>/

Absolutely zero motivation and so much work to do. I hate, hate, hate, hate stress. I can't handle it. As much as I love the idea of the course I'm on (even though the first year is full of bullshit, can't wait for next year.) it's just so stressful and I don't know if I'll be able to work in the industry like this. :/

I don't want to go to class I just want to cuddle my blankets. ;a;

Snowy wrote:Absolutely zero motivation and so much work to do. I hate, hate, hate, hate stress. I can't handle it. As much as I love the idea of the course I'm on (even though the first year is full of bullshit, can't wait for next year.) it's just so stressful and I don't know if I'll be able to work in the industry like this. :/

You'll get used to the stress. The game industry is just like the animation one it's a very stressful job area but most people are used to it well untill deadlines show up that is! Damn deadlines >.>

RL friend person, I agree with almost all your opinions, but when it's a matter of personal preference (if I think certain body parts are pretty or not) then I'm allowed to have my own opinion. And seriously? I state my opinion and you tell me to "keep it down because that's what most people think"? This isn't a life-changing opinion! I don't think something is pretty! That's it! Just because lots of people happen to feel similar ways doesn't mean that my opinion is bad. I don't care if it was me against the world, I'd still feel the way I do! So sorry if I'm promoting some mythical bandwagon.