its wow or me
its wow or me
I guess her last boyfriend was realy into wow as well. So much in fact while he was in a raid she came in in new hot victorias secret stuff and he was more interested in the game. I allrady know my answer. While i do like wow, I wont lie if my girl came in like that id be like".........GuysIGottaGo" lol
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^^^^ thats my opinion as wellSaturo wrote:Tell her that you're not like that, and then show her? xD
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Sure you want to exercise moderation, but you shouldn't be paying for the other guy being a fool.
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Slickrock wrote:not sure you want to be in a relationship where those kinds of demands are being made this early in the relationship.
Sure you want to exercise moderation, but you shouldn't be paying for the other guy being a fool.
I know what you guys are saying, but I'd be really careful to pass judgment when we don't know more about the situation or their relationship. Maybe part of it is simply that she misses him terribly and wants him 100% to herself when he returns.mpd_84 wrote:giving you an ultimatum like that as your being deployed comes off as really bad form,regardless of how addicted her ex may or may not have been...
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Anyways, she does sound like she is assuming the game is the problem and not the persons self control. It might be up to you to show her the game isn't bad if she is assuming it is.
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If your girlfriend could possibly try playing the game with you, that helps A LOT. My husband used to be obsessed with FFXI and I loathed the game so much, because I wasn't a part of it. But now that I've played wow with him, I completely get it, and I have the most fun in game when we're doing stuff together. He's also currently deployed, and we will both be taking a break from wow when he comes home, in order to focus on spending time together.
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1. She wants to try and talk me out of being a law enforcement officer, but she says that she COULD overlook
2. No firearms will ever be alowed on the property we own. (kinda cocky since this is the third month and we havent even spoke about having an OUR property) Plus im a hunter, and will be a cop. Im not saying i will have an AK47 laying on the coffee table but there will be guns at some point.
3. She has a problem with large breed dogs...Large breed meaning anything bigger then a pug. That includes my 4 fave breeds Labs, German shepards, boxers, and American Bulldog. Saying she will NEVER own dogs like that, granted I thought i could tlk her into at least labs.
4. this wow thing. I dont care even if she drops this topic the other 3 are enough to throw up warnings.
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There are bound to be traits about one another that you don't like or disagree on - that's the case in every relationship. However I don't think it's fair to make so many blatant demands, especially so early in the relationship. It seems disrespectful to me, and a relationship should be more about equality than control. There will be time enough to iron out little wrinkles as you go, but it seems presumptuous to make so many demands right off the bat without bothering to confront the underlying problems at all.
I dunno, that's my two cents I guess.
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i don't understand couples that are like.. one shop-a-holic GF and one gamer BF.
like.. isn' t that hella boring?
Why not be with someone you enjoy doing the things you like with?
I LOVE seeing couples in game/games.
but i will never understand couples who don't play SOMETHING together.
shopping isn't THAT fun. xD
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Well, a gamer dating a non-gamer isn't problematic if they share other interests. It's almost inevitable that a pair of people will have differences in what they like, and gaming may be one of those things. Now, in the case that a couple has nothing they can do together besides dinner and a movie, THEN you've got a problem.Dizzy wrote:why dont' you just get her into wow?
i don't understand couples that are like.. one shop-a-holic GF and one gamer BF.
like.. isn' t that hella boring?
Why not be with someone you enjoy doing the things you like with?
I LOVE seeing couples in game/games.
but i will never understand couples who don't play SOMETHING together.
shopping isn't THAT fun. xD
As for the situation at hand... It definitely seems like she's crossing a line in making all these demands. That's a situation that I'd personally walk away from, but I don't know all the details. I agree that a long talk with her is probably in order.
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She sounds like a complete control freak.
When I started reading this thread I thought to myself that the "stop WoW or else" type of demand was a serious warning sign.
However, the new "conditions" you've mentioned are more than warning signs. This woman is potentially very problematic. Imagine that she's trying to control these relatively simple aspects of your life (and, well, the whole law-enforcement thing isn't "simple" but it's rather "fundamental" to who you are), what happens when you have been together longer and some more serious issues arise? Will she forever be "demanding" that you be the one making compromises?
My husband and I have been together 10 years now (well, technically, only my "husband" for 3 months now), and we are both moderate gamers, except we don't actually play together all that much, mostly because of our work schedules. But we do lots of things together, and neither of us would dream of "demanding" anything of the other.
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