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*hugs* Glad things are looking up. Just give a holler if you'd like your forum name changed too.

Solarii wrote:Its been two weeks since then, the boxes came in and I started crying when they arrived and when we opened them two days ago, I'm better than I was those two weeks ago. I have already been making plans on what I want and need to do. I am going to do a temp agency and get my money up where I can get myself back in school, since I did take a break and moved out there with him.

First, after reading the full story (that must have been painful to type out), all I can say is that it doesn't make any sense to me either. I just hope it was cathartic to tell that story.

I hope that you going back to school will help you recover emotionally, in addition to getting you a degree. If only there were more scholarships for people trying to return to college...
Anyways, you got a major in mind?

Solarii wrote:Wow-wise I did delete all my characters and I have started two new characters on the server that I have been apart of for a long time. I decided I wasn't going to let him chase me off the server I discovered, and the guild I am apart of has been supportive. My characters are Hisae-human mage and Starhope-NE hunter, the Server-Whisperwind. I am having a blast and rediscovering the joy that I realize that I missed with my original mage, Plua. The hunter I named Starhope as a reference to the hope of beginnning anew. I have been thinking of restoring my mage and hunter but I do not think I am ready for that.

Starhope, what a nice name. Makes me think of Pandora's box for some reason. You should get Pengupuff to make an avatar-sized (100 pixel x 100 pixel) picture based off that name; that girl is really creative.

Also, that's great that you still have your old guild standing by your side.

Solarii wrote:Araela and everyone else, I have been so honored and grateful that you all have been thinking and supporting me. I do have my moments of both anger and happiness as I think of him. I know I will live on and I know my family of 13+ will not let me stay down for very long and they will get me out and about.

I hope to see some of you on Whisperwind one day! I love you all! *Hugs*

I'm tempted to make a character or two on Whisperwind, but I've been spending so much time studying because of college this quarter that I barely have any WoW time.

I may create a character on your server sometime in the future if you would like, but until then you still have my support here on the forum!

Please do! Come to Whisperwind, it would be nice to have someone to chat with. One reason I want to restore my hunter Solarii in particular is that I got really lucky on getting Gondria and Loque'nak, and I waited weeks for Humar, and he was my first tame, but....my ex was there when I got those tames.

Thanks to the stress, change in climate, and change in weather....I have gotten sick. What a pain....and weeks before I had a headcold and my ex took very good care of me. I have been wracking my brain trying to see what the changes were but I can't figure it out.

I am good, just being sick is wearing me down....

I am new here and after reading your story I am shocked... I know no amount of what I say can make it better but I'd talk anytime you liked and I was available. I hope things look up for you..sometimes people can be so cruel and heartless

Sol, I'm going to PM you my real ID if you ever want to talk. As a full time grad student and student teacher, I haven't had a lot of "extra time" so to speak for other characters besides cranking out dailies on my main. At some point though, I will make a toon over on Whisperwind!

Solarii wrote:Please do! Come to Whisperwind, it would be nice to have someone to chat with. One reason I want to restore my hunter Solarii in particular is that I got really lucky on getting Gondria and Loque'nak, and I waited weeks for Humar, and he was my first tame, but....my ex was there when I got those tames.

Thanks to the stress, change in climate, and change in weather....I have gotten sick. What a pain....and weeks before I had a headcold and my ex took very good care of me. I have been wracking my brain trying to see what the changes were but I can't figure it out.

I am good, just being sick is wearing me down....

You tamed Gondria and Loque'nahak, correct? Same with Humar? He may have shared your joy back then, but that doesn't mean that he can then steal that joy from you.

Me, I think that the stress is mostly to blame. One more reason to take it easy for the time being, yes?
Also, I suspect that the reason for the breakup won't be clear unless/until he explains it to you. I highly doubt that the fault was yours.

Oh, and change your location in your profile, if for no other reason than to signify that you've moved on and starting anew in Texas.