Moore wrote:This happened thanksgiving and I'm still dwelling on it because it's honestly bugging the crap out of me.
I was preparing food for the oven on the stove etc. I had made some cheesecakes and was getting them ready with some other things. Anywho someone walks up to me and says "You'll make someone a good wife some day". Like there's something inherently wrong with a guy doing the cooking. I know this person wasn't joking it's a real asshole thing to say. The reason I'm still dwelling on it I guess is because I'm pretty sure most of my family thinks I'm gay. Kinda bugs me because they're all pretty religious or are really misinformed in such areas. I haven't even really embraced that whole... aspect of my life I'm really confused so I hate the feeling of people watching me and assuming. Basically I really really don't like gender roles. I like to do what I like and wish people would leave me alone about it (in every aspect of life). @_@
generally speaking, being gay isn't something you're "unsure about".
it can be something you're not equipped to deal with.
or something you're unwilling to face.
but VERY rare is the person who rally "doesn't know if or not".
Most of the gay people I know knew when they were little kids. they didn't have a name for it, but they knew.
Being gay has nothing to do with gender roles, either.
And cooking is certainly not a feminine thing to do... most of the great chefs in the world are heterosexual males.
There ain't all that much gayness going on in the kitchens of all those 5-star restaurants!
Come to think of it, most of the gay men I know couldn't cook to save their lives.. my own husband would probably drop dead from hunger if I wasn't there to make his meals!