I don't like this member of our raiding team.

[Kuraine]

Have you ever tried talking with the warlock? Blowing kisses and whatnot doesn't sound like "sexual harassement" to me (I'm female too).

Rofl, I never said it was. It's just really annoying, for both me and one of the healers who's also female. The guy is known as a bit of a troll really, and randomly brought up some comment about his 'dickhand' during the raid. A lot of people told him to shut up and said there were girls in the raid who didn't want to hear such things, and he said that he was sure we didn't mind. We do. Also he barely ever speaks in vent, all that was said was said in raid/emotes/whatever, and yes, he was threatened to get kicked. This I didn't mind so much.

Lol, I make our raiding team seem so dramatic. But that's kind of the point - ever since these two came to their first raid together it's been all srs bizniz and dramaz.

[Atalanta]

Well, for people who like the attention it's not a problem Cyone.

I however, am like Kuraine. I hate it when anyone in my Guild/Raiding group tries to flirt on vent or whisper me with cheesy comments. It's embarrassing when it's front of the other members, and to be honest, it's quite disrespectful when they don't know you personally.

To be honest, you should bring all of your problems to your GM, as that's his/her job to make sure their Guild is as comfortable a place for everyone. If it was a working environment, it'd be the same thing. You take your issues to the management and let them deal with it. Personally, I'd tell the guy whose spamming kisses to DIAF and the cocky 'raid leader' to stop keyboard warrior'ing (woah, try saying that word fast, lol) and let you guys have your fun. Seriously, you can still get 7/7 HC without being seriously serious!

[Mychelle]

I am under the same impression that if your in PVP gear, you PVP. You dont come into PVE content in PVP gear. I dont care how good it is.

And if it really came down to it...I'd have had a more serious talk with the Warlock. I know alot of my good friends and I joke around with /kiss and /hug ect ect. Even if we are all just friends and all have our own personal relationships. He still might be a huge persistent flirt, but got to give someone the benefit of the doubt until you've at least spoken with him further to explain that you'd rather not have that done towards your character. To me though...he does sound like dirty flirt. But still, I would have least have tried to have a serious conversation with him in whisper to explain what bothers me and what doesnt, to see his reaction before voting for the other guy.

I would have -definitely- not voted for the arrogant ass that other guy seems to be from your description of him. If I cant have fun, Im not raiding. Period.

I'd have just said since I dont like either, Im not voting at all, heh.