Female Reproductive Health [explicit]

[Saturo]

I also heard your breasts grow 2 pounds if your a preggy, guess I should just say that

I am NOT getting pregnant for larger breasts. :D

My sister is sixteen with D's or bigger. Haven't asked her recently.

Unfair to me. :)

I offered you mine. You can keep them. :P

I haven't received them yet! D:

[rubybeam]

I wasn't suggesting for you to get pregnat, sorry for confusion
Just a random fact you probably didn't know

[Saturo]

The very concept of pregnancy frightens me.

[rubybeam]

I wouldn't blame you, all the stuff im learning about in health and science about it seems painful
there mourning sickness
you vagina being ripped when giving birth
sudden cravings for strange foods
not to mention it would seem that theres a possible chance to die(very small) before the placenta grows in

[Hesantia]

I wouldn't blame you, all the stuff im learning about in health and science about it seems painful
there mourning sickness
you vagina being ripped when giving birth
sudden cravings for strange foods
not to mention it would seem that theres a possible chance to die(very small) before the placenta grows in

Actually, there's a name for the phobia of child birth: Tokophobia. I know a person that suffers from it aswell. Oh, and I guess that there's a reason for the mental state that causes mothers to kill their newborn childs; they grow a hate for the thing inside them for whatever reason (making you fat, making you feel sick etc) so that they can't stand them when they are born. There is a name for it and it's classed as a mental illness.

[cowmuflage]

So me and my BF broke up today D: I really did love him and was happy..... *sigh* why anit I good with human males >:( my cat he loves me!

[Saturo]

Aww, that sucks, Cowmu! What went wrong?

[cowmuflage]

He thougt we where moveing apart and thougt I was too clingy (I don't think I am) so he dumped me .

Heck I don't even know how clingy is too clingy! I mean I don't want to be around him 24/7 and stuff. :/

[Saturo]

Aah, the classic clinginess... D:
Most of the time that's just an excuse for ''I'm not ready for the responsibility of getting dressed whenever you come over!''.

[cowmuflage]

Hmmm to take my mind of this I'm going to start that Arthas pick you wanted me to draw.

[Miyon]

I have gained weight. I knew I had, but not this bad. I am so miserable I want to crawl back to bed and cry.
We were supposed to have some sort of photosession for an assignment at school today. I can't wear what we had planned because it doesn't fit anymore. Or, the leather jacket fits if I don't relax. And my corset thing? It makes me look bigger instead of smaller. Now I could always go back home and get it just for the shoot. But still. I feel like such a failure
Now I happen to be 150cm tall (short) and 53kg (which is 3kg too much when none of it are muscles). Now that isn't too bad overall, but I feel it looks a lot worse. There are no changes to my eating habits, except I eat a little less often. I don't exercise. I can't afford it either. Now keep in mind that I do not suffer from bad self esteem. I am in fact very cute.
This isn't really anything you guys, or gals, can help me with I think. It's like a rant, and most males don't understand, and I didn't feel it fit into the rant thread. And now I just figured out that the rest of the group is not prepared. Fuck my day.
I do suspect all the changes to birth controls to be a factor here, but I can't quit it either.

[cowmuflage]

That sucks Miyon :/

Lady in red please go away come back when you diside to come at the same time I'm hateing your randomness!

[Miyon]

Got the pictures a few hours ago, I may consider uploading a couple if I feel comfortable enough later.

Now, if only I could afford to exercise.. I don't necessarily want to look like a pile of bones, but I want to tighten up. xD

[Novikova]

Personally, I'd be a terrible parent. Health issues, absent minded - I'd water the kid, wonder why the plant is so quiet. There'd be a herd of dingoes in my yard with little BBQ bibs on.

So I don't mind babysitting, but keeping one is right out. I'd feel awful if anything happened. :/

[nirvana]

Not really here to vent, as I'm doing pretty well. I just wanted to give my story to give some people who might have issues, hope.

If you're a girl, you're probably familiar with endometriosis and PCOS. If you're not, they're both conditions that can make your periods painful, heavy, and just plain irregular. I've dealt with PCOS since I was 14. My mom used to think I was lying when I would tell her I was in too much pain to go to school on an almost monthly basis, and there were a couple times I got in trouble for missing so many days of school. While on my period, at times I was in so much pain I could barely move. Even sitting or laying down wasn't without pain. I mostly just wanted to curl up with a heating pad and die. Or sleep.

Anyway, my first gyno told me that cysts, even in the numbers I had them, were a fairly common occurance, nothing to be concerned about, blahblahblah. They wouldn't put me on BC because at the time I was on others meds too for a pretty bad stomach ulcer and acid reflux. Which was probably a good thing because I was puking at least once a day as it was.

Fast forward a few years, and I'm still dealing with the issue. Only worse cause now my career requires me to be active, and I can't really afford to miss too many days of work. Not to mention I wasn't full time so I had literally 0 health insurance. Usually I just dosed myself on Ibuprofen (800mg maybe twice a day) and hoped that'd be enough. Quite a few times I went so long without periods that I got scared I was going through early menopause or something.

My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years now, which has led me to start thinking about kids. Of course, I was adamant when I was younger that I would never want kids, but after being happy with him for so long I started to get depressed that I'd probably never be able to due to my condition. After all, both endo and PCOS can result in complications getting pregnant or even sterility. But lo and behold, I started getting violently ill in July, went to the doctor, and somehow, I'd managed to get pregnant even while on BC and practicing safe sex, etc.

It was weird, for the first week or so...didn't know what to feel. But then something just clicked, and we both felt so happy, and proud. It ended up not working out - I miscarried - but those weeks before it happened, easily the happiest of my life. I try not to think about the month or so of crying that followed =/

I guess the point I'm trying to make is that there's always hope, and not to give up just because of your health issues. The best thing to come out of my experience - I got the doctor's OK to go on constant BC and am now period-and-pain-free. Yay!

Well, that and I know that I want kids now. Someday.

[cowmuflage]

well your story did make a good point about hope! Sucks about the miscarge(sp XD). That would suck my grandma did that 2 times in a row before she ended adopting my uncle. I hope you do have kids!

[Miyon]

It would be harder to get pregnant and keeping the child if you are seriously underweight though.

[Saturo]

It's spam. Ignore it. ^^

[Miyon]

It's spam. Ignore it. ^^

When I read through that a second time, I noticed. I tend to read short post very fast, and then overlooking lots of it.

[cowmuflage]

Hmmm I do need to gain weight :/