I think frustration is the answer often. PPL should think before they post/say/do something. I refuse to let the game get to me.. because its JUST A GAME. Its pixel on a screen.. If it ruins my life then its not a game anymore.Zhuge wrote:pawprintedheart wrote: Umm, wow. Okay. I don't know why Kireyne feels that I meant her/him in my general rant post, especially considering I've never dealt with them before? I've never been given OR gifted a dragon from them. Heck, I don't even think I've spoken to them before. -shrugs- Personally I consider trying to take back a dragon gifted OR given away rude unless it was agreed upon, but once again, no idea who you are, so unless you're the person on FR trying to convince me to give back a dragon.....
And apparently this is why I should stay away from Petopia.
Edited to add: If for some reason Kir still feels this is about them please pm me. I'm not out to cause drama and honestly am 90% certain the person I was ranting about wasn't a petopian and therefore was safe to rant here, but even so I don't like to name names and definitely not public ally.
I'm well confused too o.O Paw, you're one of the nicest people I've spoken to on here and FR - heck, I've rarely seen you get ranty about anything, nevermind another person :/ I also think that if you give away a dragon on the free thread, then its gone - its like a sale but without money being exchanged. Unless its been agreed beforehand, then its up to the new owner to give it back should they want to - if they don't then I'm sorry, its tough luck. I've even rehomed dragons through there with the agreement that I get first dibs on them should they need to move on again, only to find they have been exalted or sold on without me knowing. It stung the first few times, but then I realised, I had relinquished my rights to the dragon when I accepted the crossroads.
The free to new homes thread to me is just that. It's 'rehoming' dragons to people who will use them instead of just exalting them - its not a "hey, store my dragon and feed it until I decide I want it back again" threadThink long and hard about putting dragons in the free thread - if you aren't ready to be rid of them forever, then don't offer them - simples!
Sometimes I feel this community is slipping - time and again entitlement raises its ugly headWhat happened to the happy place? What happened to common sense?!
This below is not ment for anyone particular but is some of the things which helps me stay in the game and on this forum

Take a breath, be kind to ppl - even if they are unkind to you. Shudder your shoulders when ppl do something mean to you and just decide not to help them out again. I have a few ppl i wont be helping out alot but i dont sweat about it.
The more kind and helpful i try to be, the better i feel.
Many petopians are like family to me so take care of eachother and be kind
