Female Reproductive Health [explicit]

[Poesje]

Well, if hes only got one testicle, its going to take more time. ^^ Just keep at it.

[Miyon]

Something is weird. I'm bleeding, and I don't have any pads. I have recently had my socalled period too. I'm not supposed to bleed at all even.

[Rhyela]

How are your periods usually? Heavy? Crampy? Bleeding after the fact can sometimes be an indication of other stuff going on. My friend had uterine fibroids and she'd bleed irregularly. I'm not saying that you definitely have fibroids, just that irregular bleeding can be an indication of something else. It could probably also have to do with stress or a change in hormones for some reason. Our bodies react to different things in different ways. I would suggest talking to a doctor, though, if you can afford it.

[cowmuflage]

Yeah I bleed at random times thats just useally my ulcers acting up tho. I to suggest a vist to the doctors thats what they are ther for!

[Finduilas]

I also sometimes bleed a day after I did have a little too much fun with my fiance in bed... Don't know why it doesn't come immediately after

To Rhyela: It's sad to hear you still didn't have any luck. But don't let the stress get too much at you. I heard that it gets harder to get pregnant if your body is already stressed out by psychological issues. Just take time and I would say: have fun with your husband when you feel like it. My parents tried several months before my mom got pregnant and they both didn't have any problems with fertility. It just took time. I keep my fingers crossed for you!

On my own wanting-a-baby-issues: I talked with my fiance a long time but we now have agreed that I'll finish my Bachelor's degree first and than become parents. If I quit my studies (I really am afraid of returning to university in Germany) we might debate it again. But so far: studies no babies...

[Miyon]

Huh, I completely forgot to check back here. But yeah, I bled for almost a week, and it wasn't even the typical "fresh bright red blood" look. It's weird. I am pretty stressed out though, I always am. I am pretty much unable to relax.

I should on the other hand go to the doctor about my stomach, something is up with it. Probably something that runs in the family.

[Aeladrine]

Oh! If it's a bit darker, you're probably fine. Sometimes right after your period ends or right before it starts you'll get that. It's sort of like your body is cleaning itself out again.(: You can check out this page for a little bit more information.

[Miyon]

My periods though, are very light. Sometimes I get cramps, but I only bleed about every 2-3 months. I use implanon, implant in my arm because I can't remember the pills, and it is very common to not bleed while using it.
So I bleed every once in a while, but haven't had it double before.

I will check the link later, aela, when I get a pc since my phone won't load it.
But regarding the colour, it stays red the first day and then it goes over to brown (it does that when it is ending), and then it is brown for like three days and then it's over.

[Aeladrine]

I just found out I have a septate hymen. Brilliant. Good to know I won't be able to have sex comfortably or ever remove tampons without pain (you guys have no idea how much pain. I chemically burned my eyes last year and it's like that, only it doesn't last the whole day) unless I get surgery. Woohoo.

[Rhyela]

It would be a minor surgery at least, right? I imagine they'd somehow easily snip that bit out. Not that it'd be easy to go through, I'm sure. I just always try to see the glass as half-full.

[cowmuflage]

Surgerys not that bad really. I mean okay I've had like 5 major ones so I'm proberly not the best to talk but truly they are not that bad. Take it as this would you rather have a little bit of pain for a bit but get better or just be in pain? Heck least it's not something like rib surgery or anything really major!

EDIT: yeah surgery is scary trust me it is but hey it makes ya better right?

[Rhyela]

That's a good way of putting it, cowmu. I guess for me personally, if it came down to a week or so of discomfort post-surgery or the rest of my life not being able to enjoy sex or put in a tampon, I'd have to take the week. Besides, I'm sure they can give you some good meds if the pain is really that bad. I was told long long ago when I accidentally cut myself there (freak accident when I was 10, I was sitting on a bicycle in my parents' garage when the kickstand collapsed and some metal piece or another cut me - I was wearing a bathing suit) that that area heals really quickly compared to other injuries on your body.

I wish you luck, and send you many virtual hugs!!!

[cowmuflage]

Thats what I told myself when I had to have my first rib surgery and it helped alot.

[cowmuflage]

Would they even need to cut you up? Sorry that came out of no where.


Anywho in more happy news I might have a um how to put it "friend with benifits"? I guess he's not really a BF we just use each other. Um heck he might become one some time later but atm yeah. >.>

[Miyon]

I am scared.

I am not bleeding anymore, but there was something else.. I noticed it at my last toilet break, something felt very weird, and when I looked, it was bright yellow with an oily consistence. What the hell?
It left me feeling quite nauseaus as well.

[GormanGhaste]

I noticed it at my last toilet break, something felt very weird, and when I looked, it was bright yellow with an oily consistence. What the hell?
It left me feeling quite nauseous as well.

A bright yellow color could be caused by B-vitamin supplements, but an odd consistency and nausea indicate a urinary tract infection, possibly severe. You need to go to a doctor, it's easily treated with antibiotics.

[Miyon]

I haven't touched any supplements in ages actually, so I doubt that's it. Urinary tract infections appear in the vaggy part?
It seriously looked like oil though, as if you had whipped oil into milk, there were "oil beads". I think the nausea came from the fact that it was yellow and I got scared. I will check it out though, I have to go to the doc for my stomach anyway.

Edit: It is gone now. I will still ask the doctor about it. It scared the heck out of me. My nails seem to have a hint of orange, but that doesn't have to mean anything.

[cowmuflage]

I'd just say go see a doc :/

[Miyon]

Will do. Will have to get an appointment next week though, so whatever it was is probably long gone until then. I hate that I get so worked up over small things like this :/

[cowmuflage]

Eh it's your privates you can get worryed about them! I would.