appologies in advance

[Dulanie]

I would like to appologize in advance if I say anything rude, inappropriate, insulting, etc... The reason for this is that I am going through a hellish emotional time right now because my fiance disappeared with my newborn son that was born 7 weeks premature, and I do not know where she is and refuses to answer her cell phone when I call. I am trying to keep it together, but would like to appologize in advance if my emotional state gets the better of me.

[Saturo]

That's horrible! Have you reported it to the police? Because I'm pretty sire you can call it kidnapping and call for custody or something. I really do hope you can find her and get your son back.
Also, been trough a similar thing when my parents separated. I can understand any sadness, madness, and overall emotional trauma this kind of thing brings with it. How incredibally irresponsible, to just run off like that! Hopefully, she'll come to her senses and at the very least return to discuss custody and the like. I've never had a kid myself, luckily, but I understand that it's a very emotional experience.

Just awful to run off like that, and just leave you. That's mean to you, the child and in the end herself. Trust me, she's having second feelings already. Hopefully you two can work it out...

I'm not good at writing this kind if thing. What i mean is, ugh... Yeah, I can't write caring posts. I just hope, for your sake, that it works out.

[Teigan]

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[Dulanie]

The first thing I did after calling her, her mom, aunt, and everyone else I can think of was to call a lawyer, police, etc... The law does not consider it kidnapping for 1 reason.....we are not married.

[Tygamoon]

I honestly think the law doesn't do enough in these situations. Good for you for getting a lawyer though! I hope things are resolved soon and go well too for all three of you.

[Rarako]

But you are the father, there for she took your child form you. This happened to a friend of mine with his two year old daughter Terra. What ever you do don't give up, keep calling, check for her at her work, and see if anyone of her co-workers or friends knows anything. Good luck, thoughts and wishes are with you.

[Sarayana]

Aw shit, I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what I'd do if someone took my son... I'm feeling a rising panic just uttering that.

If you think the mom/aunts know where she is and are in contact with her, then keep calling them. If they see that you're serious and won't relent, perhaps they'll talk some sense to her. *hugs*

[Sonata]

That...that's horrible. I can't even imagine the deal of stress that you are going through!
I give you lots of courage hugs and hot chocolate to ease your mind.
Don't give up! You'll find her and the baby! *more hugs*

[zedxrgal]

Major hugs and prayers to you.

At this point I would contact a local news station and state that you have your baby missing, taken by the mother and none of the police are willing to help.
Maybe that will attract some help.

Again hugs and prayers to you!!

[Dewclaw]

That's awful. I hope you get this resolved soon.

[Dulanie]

Thank you for the support. This is even harder on me then my divorce was 3 years ago. I am afraid I will ahve to take my daughter to a theripst since she started calling my fiance mama several months ago, and says "I miss mama, and baby brother." almost every day. That is what hurts the most.