As if things weren't hard /bad enough already (profanity)

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As if things weren't hard /bad enough already (profanity)

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I'm going to basically lay it all out for everyone in as short as I can so as to not draw this out even longer and get long winded.
I live in California, one of the hardest hit states for shitty economy. I was laid off my job of 9 years back in November of 2009. Thankfully I got unemployment and have been looking for a job ever since. In mid April I was informed by my roommates that their company was being forced to shut down and they would be attempting to collect unemployment also. Between the three of us the house payment is to high so they're now losing the house. They've been forced into a short sale and told me in mid May they're leaving the state come July. I have now tripled my efforts to finding a job still with no success. Two weeks ago I had to voluntarily give my car back to the finance company because I just couldn't afford to be spending $650 a month on a car (including insurance but still) and attempting to pay probably higher rent now because of having to move.
So now I'm jobless, carless and soon to be without a home.
I wake up this morning and put my dog outside and the first thing I'm hit with by my one roommate is "Did you hear on the news about unemployment benefits?"
I said "No. What's going on"
She said "Federal government just signed into office a bill that stops ALL unemployment extensions."
I said "Are you fucking kidding me???"
I now race to my laptop, turn it on and immediately pull up the CA EDD website and sure enough in bright bold letters there's the news flash.
Basically I am so fucked. I have very very little money in the bank and maybe one more check coming IF I get lucky. I cannot ask my boyfriend to allow me to move in AND support me on the hopes I'll find a job extremely soon. He doesn't make enough money for that. My only other option is to move with my roommates and pray I can get a job asap where they're heading. I would have only what's left in my account which isn't much. But it wouldn't last me long in CA. Not even a month.
I had enough on my mind to deal with let alone to now have my one and only source of income being ripped away.
I'm at a loss. My boyfriend and I just had our 2 year anniversary and tomorrow is his birthday. And this shitty news is going to be delivered to him today if he hasn't already heard. :cry:

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Awww, I'm so sorry to hear about that. :( There aren't any jobs available at all? I mean stuff like paper routes, fast food, anything to make money until something more reliable/steady comes along. But then if the economy in CA is really bad, then I bet even stuff like that is hard to come by.

Where are your roommates moving to? Is it within the state? Hopefully you wouldn't have to move too far, away from your boyfriend.

I really don't know what to say. There's the old cliches that it always gets worse before it gets better, etc., but I know that's very hard to see when you're in a situation like that. I was struggling with something very similar to that during the first three years of my marriage. Most of it was just my husband being very lazy and unsupportive, but thankfully we're through that now. I had to pay all the bills and support both of us on my small income. It was very difficult, but we made it. And now my husband is a much better man, too. :)

Anyhow, I didn't mean to start yapping about myself, just thought I'd give you an example of how things can be bad but they don't always stay that way.

Keep on looking and don't give up, something's bound to turn up one way or the other. Best wishes, m'dear.

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I'd give you money, but I don't have any. :(
I really hope things work out for you.

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I'm laid off atm too. I got another rejection letter in the mail today.

Best of luck in your job hunt. Things will get better.
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Ohh, hun I am so sorry to hear things are not going too well!

Everything will work out, don't worry yourself too much, I know that things happen to make us upset but you can pull through this and be a stronger person!

Much love from Nel! :hug:
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Sorry to hear that. Whatever you do... DON'T move to New York State. I live in a suburb of Buffalo, We're paying almost 9% sales tax. I'm also paying almost $6,000 a year in taxes on my $120,000 house on a 75X125 lot. And let's not even get into the fact that the state has gone almost 90 days with no budget. Last I heard they're planning on raising taxes to compensate. I heard Delaware is nice... no sales tax there.

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