Zeilla8 wrote:I only played WoW for about 6 months before I got into this guild and it was a huge jump for me compared to the other raiding style I was used to. I also haven't played any other games besides WoW, much less raided. Perhaps this is the standard raid environment then. I guess it all depends on what you've seen before. When I tell my irl friends about my raiding structure they are surprised it is so strict, but then again most of my friends aren't gamers (now that is not meant to be insulting or anything negative).
No, I know what you mean. I *AM* a gamer and yet hearing some of my raiding friend's stories about her guild makes me want to curl up into a ball and hide in a corner. She seems to love the atmosphere, even if it can get loud and very shouty sometimes, but I just point-blank couldn't take a situation like that. Too much pressure for me.
Sonata wrote:
Also are most casuals actually lone wolfs who rather not be in a guild? Sometimes casuals don't have guilds and dare not step into one; what did it feel like to step into a guild the first time?
This is a REALLY good point. Until recently I used to be pretty much a loner. I had one or two friends who got me into the game to begin with, but I was content to play by myself for the most part. It wasn't bad or anything, and I would usually just avoid any dungeon or group quests that came my way, and level the old-fashioned questing way.
One of these friends invited me to her casual raiding guild (they were hardcore about raids, but raiding wasn't the only thing they did). It was nice, because it was a group, and sometimes I could talk to them. At the same time, it was a bit awkward, because I was clearly getting pulled into a very big group setting where everyone already knew each other. I remember my friend giving me the intro-lecutures. "That's X, but he's also Y, Z, A, B, and F, he raids on all those alts. That's C, he's also...." Etc etc. It was just so hard to keep track of anything, and because I didn't do a lot of raiding content, there wasn't a hella lot I could do to relate to them. That guild eventually splintered as the more hardcore raiders joined a hardcore raiding guild, and when the few people I DID know jumped over there, I jumped ship.
Petopians is the second guild I've been in, but I REALLY feel like I click with everyone in it

Everyone is mostly casual and fun, we all understand each other, and having been there from the beginning (lol, almost literally, I was the first forumite to join XD) I know everybody. There's no pressure to BE THE BEST and BE ON TIME AT THIS POINT AT THIS DAY TO GET THIS CONTENT DONE, and everybody is super helpful. Hell, I think the reason I've been able to level so fast, even without heirlooms, is just because I have all these tips and tricks for classes I'd never been able to get into before
~VelkynKarma