Letting out my feelings... and Feeling better
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Letting out my feelings... and Feeling better
Well, we both agreed to give it a try back in December, but something happened in between then. He ended up getting WoW cut off for a while and we actually started growing distance. Tonight, we decided to talk about this. At first, I thought he was going to say we were done, but instead... He gave me a good proposal (No, not that kind!). Being apart because of money and distance was starting to hurt both of us. We couldn't hug, go out to a movie, kiss etc and this started to take a toll on both of us. He wants us both to take a step back for a moment. We can't do this right away because we're just getting started. We're not done with each, but we need to get started. Then we can hope to be closer to one another. This brought me so much closure and comfort.
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I believe I remember you mentioning that first relationship, and I'm glad something is actually working out alright.
Getting a good, solid base on the relationship always helps. It's great that you talked and figured something out!
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Oh dear, you remember my freak out about that? ^^;LupisDarkmoon wrote:(Lightfur here)
I believe I remember you mentioning that first relationship, and I'm glad something is actually working out alright.
Getting a good, solid base on the relationship always helps. It's great that you talked and figured something out!
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But yes, I do. The forum post.
...My memory is evil. Blame it. xD
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Hehe, I get told that a lot and you're right. If someone breaks up with you because of hurdles, they're not the one for you. <3Xakaal wrote:Just remember, if the guy breaks it then he aint the one for you! Only a true love would stick with ya through all the storms that come to pass.
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Doesn't really matter if they're younger or older imo, a fair few girls out there detest the idea of dating someone younger as well, but so long as you find someone who's actually mature and level-headed then I don't see the problem. Some people deal better with the distance than others do.. and i've found that if you're saving money to visit or preparing to move closer to them, that knowledge alone tends to curb the pain and bridge the gap a little; whereas if both parties are lacking communication and neither one is saving money/preparing a visit, then everything starts feeling pretty crummy (as you've seen.)
One step at a time, stay positive, and keep an open mind even if things don't work out -- I think things will work out for the better, no matter what happens. x3
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Sadly for me mine didn't work out turns out he wanted something I had to give him it. I am rather young and he wanted me to move away from my family and friends that minute ... But I'm sure yours will work as long as you both try ... I found having a webcam talk from time to time really nice, ok it wasn't seeing them how I would of liked but it eased the pain of not having them around. I wish I would be more help but I don't want to post to much on my online relationship in such a public form ^^' Sorry
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Re: Letting out my feelings... and Feeling better
All of my meetups have been really uncomfortable. Especially since the people who are really comfortable IMing and so on are often people who have some social anxiety in person, and then they shut down instead of being able to chat with them comfortably like you're used to.
Just some food for thought before you, say, fly yourself out to a strange place to meet someone for the first time.
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I've been there, done that many times. But....I met my current fiance through WoW. See, I started playing wow in September of 2008, around thw 25th or 28th. I met him in Tanaris. Mind you, I was on Jetfyre(my NE druid) and he was on Kaless(his draenei warrior). It was in the Gadgetzan bank on Blackwater Raiders server. I was in the guild Way Of The Druid and he was in an eRP guild called Night Kittens(please dont freak out about that people.). I did the dance emote to him and he danced with me and we started rping and then talked in whispers OOCly. Well in October, he told me his dad had cancer. I supported him and talked to him and rped with him to keep him happy. Then in November, his dad finally passed away, losing the battle with brain cancer. He was devastated. I felt horrible for him so I gave him my number and we started talking on the phone. On December 8th, 2008, he finally unveiled that he loved me. We became a couple from there. I left my guild to join his guild. Sadly Night Kittens fell apart due to a ton of guild drama and we went to Sisters of Elune(the server) but weren't really at home there so then we moved to Moon Guard and now are quite content. Through the years, we visited each other and met the parents(well my parents and his mom) and have been making plans for the future. Then February 6th, 2011(I think), he proposed to me on ventrillo after we downed Sartharion on OS10 with 3 Drakes. He also won the roll of the black drake then traded it to me. So my guildies heard the proposal and were like "AWWWW!!!!" and one guildie, Pheobbe, actually knew he was going to 2 weeks prior and she was like "Do you know how HARD it was not to tell you?!" I plan to go see him in April if I can afford it. He bought my ring today too I think.Aleu wrote:Well, let's just say I'm not that fond of online relationships. I had my heart broken once before by someone online and it makes me think it could never work out. Until I met my current guild. Good people and I found that the GM and the Co-GM were engaged. Not only that, they had met on WoW and moved in with each other. I ended up starting an IC relationship with a friend of theirs they've known for quite a while. Well, long story short, I did some of the taboo's and let my feelings cross the IC/OOC borderline. Sadly, I also found out this boy lives in a different state. Texas. Bleh, and I'm stuck in Massachusetts. That's a good distance. He's a bit younger then I am and currently getting started like myself.
Well, we both agreed to give it a try back in December, but something happened in between then. He ended up getting WoW cut off for a while and we actually started growing distance. Tonight, we decided to talk about this. At first, I thought he was going to say we were done, but instead... He gave me a good proposal (No, not that kind!). Being apart because of money and distance was starting to hurt both of us. We couldn't hug, go out to a movie, kiss etc and this started to take a toll on both of us. He wants us both to take a step back for a moment. We can't do this right away because we're just getting started. We're not done with each, but we need to get started. Then we can hope to be closer to one another. This brought me so much closure and comfort.
JUST WANTED TO SHARE AN ANGSTY STORY.
So online relationships, while tough, can and do work out if you're willing to try. :3 I wish you the best of luck.
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Edit: Got one job app out today. I'm trying to make up a list of places to do one at a time here. XP
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